Savoury Bread and Butter Pudding

As a vegetarian I’m happy with bread and cheese for this, but you could also add some decent ham or gently sautéed leeks (say 400g roasted to be added into the recipe along with the cheeses).

Bread pudding with Comté and Taleggio

Don’t feel tied to tracking down Comté or Taleggio, even though they feel perfect for this. You need a firm-textured, punchy cheese for slicing and another that will melt into strings, such as Fontina. (Mozzarella is a bit on the mild side for this.)

Serves 4-6
bread 400g, crusty white and rustic
butter 150g, softened
Comté 300g
Taleggio 200g
thyme 12 small sprigs
Parmesan 50g
egg yolks 4
double cream 250ml
milk 300ml, full-cream

You will also need a baking dish measuring approximately 20x24cm, lightly buttered.

Set the oven at 200C/gas mark 6. Cut the bread into slices, leaving the crusts on, about 1cm in thickness. Lay the slices flat on a baking sheet place in the oven for 10 minutes, turning once, until lightly crisp.

Remove the bread from the oven and spread generously with the butter. Cut the Comté and Taleggio into 1cm thick slices. Tear the ham into large bite-sized pieces. Pull the thyme leaves from their stems.

Place a single layer of the buttered bread on the bottom of the dish, tucking the slices together snugly. Place some of the cheese on top, add a little black pepper, some thyme leaves then another layer of buttered bread and more of the cheese. Continue until the ingredients are used up.

Finely grate most of the Parmesan into a small mixing bowl, add the egg yolks, then mix in the double cream and milk with a fork or small whisk. Season with a little salt then pour over the bread letting it trickle down through the layers. Grate the reserved Parmesan over the surface.

Cover the top of the dish with foil and bake for 35 minutes. Remove the foil and continue baking for a further 10 minutes until the top is golden. Remove from the oven and leave to settle for 10 minutes before serving.

Something Positive, Sort of

In many respects, the vote to leave the EU was paradoxical. It was a vote for change that made positive change harder to achieve, but change of some sort much more likely. First and foremost, our economy is in need of deep, fundamental change. During the referendum, Remain campaigners argued that things were fine when they were not and, since the result, Brexiters have argued that things will be fine when without serious change they will not be.

Even now, some Remain voters have retreated into the comforts of pointing to a base and deceitful campaign by the Brexiters, rather than seeking to define or to solve the deeper problems that led to the vote against the status quo.

At the heart of both the Leave and Remain failure is an inability to identify, acknowledge and understand the reality of daily life for many people and communities in modern Britain, the refusal to acknowledge that the current economic model is not working for many people.

It is argued that immigration has become such an important issue precisely because free movement of labour is the crucial enabler of the low skill, low productivity, low wage economic model that has been imposed on much of the country. It is this economic model – combined with the cultural and identity challenge of large-scale immigration – that has created such discontent with the status quo.

But of course, freedom of movement has had a different response in the parts of the EU. The UK’s move towards a  low skill, low productivity, low wage economic model is a very British interpretation of freedom of movement, not an inevitability. leaving the EU, is unlikely to change an economic model that the British have chosen to follow. We are now told by government representatives that immigration is unlikely to fall, unlikely in fact to change very much at all, as a result of brexit.

The version of brexit that we are heading towards is likely to deliver “more of the same” rather than addressing underlying problems within our economy.

There is of course nothing progressive about declining to invest in skills in this country, while plundering poor countries of nurses or doctors or carers and then approaching immigration as if people were commodities to be bought up on the open market.

But when challenged about the costs of Brexit, leading Leave figures continue to argue that the UK can enjoy all of the benefits of membership, such as frictionless, tariff-free access to the single market, while bearing none of the burdens. When asked about the challenges, they respond with false reassurances that everything will be fine, and nostalgia for our past, as if this is a prescription for the future.

Brexit is the summit of their ambitions for Britain, not the starting point to solve our future challenges. Indeed, it has never mattered to the Brexit campaign leaders that leaving the EU will make it harder to confront Britain’s economic and social problems.

Theresa May offered her analysis of the problems facing Britain on the steps of Downing Street moments after kissing the Queen’s hand in July. Chancellor Philip Hammond offered an “upbeat assessment” of the British economy. Just like his predecessor, Hammond chose to focus on the top-line numbers while ignoring the deeper problems below the surface.

Relatively good headline growth figures mask a more troubling story about the fundamentals of the British economy. A few quarters of reasonable economic growth serve only as a rebuke to the more alarmist predictions of Remain campaigners.

There are multiple symptoms of a distressed economy, many of which stretch back for decades. Brexit is not the cause of these problems, but it should force us to face the diagnosis. We need a new national economic policy that is pro-growth and pro-economic justice.

The first problem identified is one of investment. Investment is the engine of the economy, driving wealth and prosperity now and in the future. For a quarter of a century, the proportion of the UK economy dedicated to investment has been declining. We lag behind comparable countries in the west, and miles behind fast-growing economies in the east.

Businesses in Britain are failing to invest in order to create good quality jobs. Brexit compounds the challenge by undermining two central parts of the investment case in Britain: political stability and unfettered access to the single market of 500 million people.

Cheap and plentiful labour from across the European Union has led firms to add more workers at low cost rather than to invest in plant, machinery or new forms of automation that drive up productivity. Some British corporations appear to have given up on investment, preferring to return more cash to shareholders than to invest in the future. This has led to the rather astonishing situation where British companies have become net savers rather than borrowers.

The second major problem is poor productivity. Low investment leads in turn to low productivity, and thence to low wages. As Nobel Prize-winning economist Paul Krugman observed: “Productivity isn’t everything, but in the long run it is almost everything.” Since the financial crisis, productivity growth in the British economy has stalled, leading to a stagnation in living standards for the majority of households.

The third problem is trade. It is all well and good to aspire to be a “great global trading nation” but today we have a massive trade deficit. If countries are queueing up for a free trade deal with Britain – and it’s not clear that they are – it is because we’re an importer, not an exporter. The last time we sold more to the rest of the world than we bought was in the mid-1990s, and sustained surpluses have not been achieved since the late 1970s and early 1980s.

Our enormous trade deficit means that the British economy is dangerously dependent on the “kindness of strangers”, who we need to sustain investment in our economy.

The difference between what we sell and earn from the rest of the world and what we buy from it has grown to 6% of the entire British economy, financed by expanding debt and selling off British assets. Were it not for the sale of ARM Holdings, Britain’s largest tech company, to Japan’s SoftBank for £24bn in July, the position would be even worse.

The fourth problem is inequality between households. In the 1980s, the gap between the richest and poorest in society accelerated rapidly, where it has stubbornly remained ever since. The richest 10% of households have incomes that are 11 times those of the poorest 10%; in France and Germany, the difference is seven-fold, and in Denmark it is five-fold.

These differences accumulate over time, meaning that there is an enormous gap in wealth as well as income.

Theresa May faces questions during the EU summit in Brussels last week.

The fifth problem is the profound regional imbalance of our economy. London is the wealthiest region in Europe and, together with the south-east of England, accounts for 40% of national output. Meanwhile, all other regions of the UK lag behind most other regions of northern Europe. Outside London and the south-east, every other region has below average productivity.

The most striking fact about these problems is that they are all of long standing, in some cases going back three or more decades. They are not temporary weaknesses in an otherwise sound model. they are not due to membership of the EU. They show that fundamental reform of the British economy is necessary.

As well as facing up to the deep and persistent problems in the economy today, we need to prepare ourselves for a decade of disruption. The changes on the horizon have the potential to reshape our economy and society – for good or for ill, depending on the quality of our response.

During the referendum campaign, there was no articulation of the challenges that we face in the decades ahead and why and how they might be easier to confront in partnership with our neighbours than alone. With better leadership, the EU might have been transformed into a safe harbour in an era of profound challenges from globalisation.

During a campaign that revealed the public’s appetite for change, Remainers had fought an uninspiring campaign for the status quo. There was no attempt to make the positive case for international co-operation. No account was given of how Britain had shaped the EU, nor any roadmap offered for how we might influence its future to better respond to the big drivers of change.

But that boat has sailed.

The first driver of change is what has been described as the fourth industrial revolution: exponential improvements in new technologies. Accelerating computing power, machine learning and artificial intelligence, automation and the “internet of things” have extraordinary power to utterly reshape how we live and work, to reorganise our social, economic and political institutions and to redistribute power and reward in society.

Without deliberate policy, technological change is likely to increase the share of rewards to those who have capital, whilst diminishing the rewards that go to workers for their labour. The rich will get richer. Moreover, the rewards for the highly skilled will continue to accelerate whilst diminishing for everyone else.

The second big driver of change is demographics. Our population will continue to grow, with the UK set to become more populous than France by 2030, and exceeding Germany’s population by 2040 to become Europe’s biggest country. At the same time, the population is set to age significantly, with a 66% increase in the number of people over the age of 75. With this change comes huge challenges in housing, health and social care. Between now and 2030, the working age population will grow by just 3%, while the number of people over 65 will increase by one third.

The continuing shift in economic power eastwards is the third driver of change. By 2030, emerging economies will have emerged: they will account for half of global output, up from a quarter today. Nearly 60% of global middle-class consumption will come from Asia, and 17 of the top 50 cities by GDP will be in China. With American leadership of the post-war global order increasingly in question, the shape of global institutions is likely to shift considerably.

The final driver of change is the new geological era we appear to have entered, where human activity has become the dominating influence on nature.

Today, we are consuming resources at 1.5 times the ability of the earth to replenish them. This requires a radical economic response in the coming decades to mitigate and reverse environmental damage. The transition towards a low-carbon world is crucial to the vision of an economy fit for the future.

There are two possible broad choices to be made in responding to these changes.

One is to embrace greater international co-operation, act in the belief that a problem shared is a problem halved; that just as capital flows and firms operate across borders, so there will be a greater premium on nation states working together in the future. That argument – the positive case for the EU – was never really put to voters. Exiting the EU makes this path significantly harder.

The other choice is to argue that the extraordinary pace of change means that it will be agility – the ability to respond rapidly and flexibly to change – that will matter. If this is true, then Britain might be better placed to prosper outside the clunky framework of European regulations and institutions. This argument was only ever made in the abstract, devoid of any substantive actions.

Yet it is precisely in their response to the challenges of the future that Brexiters reveal themselves. Lacking any substantive answers, they respond by attempting to shut down debate by condemning “remoaners”. They do not even attempt an argument that future success will be determined by the agility that Brexit might create, let alone offer meaningful ideas or proposals. In truth, their version of Britain’s future is a nostalgic past that never really existed.

We are living at a moment when an old economic settlement is in crisis, but a new settlement has yet to be formed.

The politics of the future will belong to those leaders who are prepared to face up to our present problems and future challenges – and to articulate a new destination for our economy and society. As our politicians navigate the Brexit storms, they would do well to keep an eye on the new horizons which will come to define the new era of British politics.

For whom?

Sometimes, most times these days, I’m left who brexit is for exactly. If you voted “remain” clearly it’s not for you so that’s 48% population screwed.

If you voted because of immigration, the recent White paper and comments from government minister have made clear that numbers might well rise, so that’s the 52% disappointed.

If you voted to take back sovereignty, well the shenanigans of the Tory government trying to avoid parliamentary scrutiny, have certainly disappointed, and that’s the two main reasons for anyone who voted “leave” rendered totally meaningless.

In the meanwhile, stuff people really want to happen like trade and looking after citizens located outside their place of birth, have long been sacrificed.

 

Chocolate Guinness Cake

Sometimes a dense American chocolate cake is just what you need, though this one is probably a Nigella in disguise.

INGREDIENTS:

FOR THE CAKE:

  •  Butter for pan
  • 1 cup Guinness stout
  • 10 tablespoons (1 stick plus 2 tablespoons) unsalted butter
  • ¾ cup unsweetened cocoa
  • 2 cups caster sugar
  • ¾ cup sour cream
  • 2 large eggs
  • 1 tablespoon vanilla extract
  • 2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 2 ½ teaspoons baking soda

FOR THE TOPPING:

  • 1 ¼ cups icing sugar
  • 8 ounces cream cheese at room temperature
  • ½ cup heavy cream

PREPARATION

  1. For the cake: heat oven to 350 degrees. Butter a 9-inch springform pan and line with parchment paper. In a large saucepan, combine Guinness and butter. Place over medium-low heat until butter melts, then remove from heat. Add cocoa and superfine sugar, and whisk to blend.
  2. In a small bowl, combine sour cream, eggs and vanilla; mix well. Add to Guinness mixture. Add flour and baking soda, and whisk again until smooth. Pour into buttered pan, and bake until risen and firm, 45 minutes to one hour. Place pan on a wire rack and cool completely in pan.
  3. For the topping: Using a food processor or by hand, mix icing sugar to break up lumps. Add cream cheese and blend until smooth. Add heavy cream, and mix until smooth and spreadable.
  4. Remove cake from pan and place on a platter or cake stand. Ice top of cake only, so that it resembles a frothy pint of Guinness.

NATO

Another week another pointless argument started with America’s allies by it’s president.

The German defence minister, Ursula von der Leyen, on Sunday rejected Donald Trump’s claim that Germany owes Nato and the US “vast sums” of money for defence.

“There is no debt account at Nato,” Von der Leyen said in a statement, adding that it was wrong to link the alliance’s target for members to spend 2% of their economic output on defence by 2024 solely to NATO.

“Defence spending also goes into UN peacekeeping missions, into our European missions and into our contribution to the fight against [Isis] terrorism,” Von der Leyen said.

Trump, who was spending the weekend at his Mar-a-Lago property in Florida, said on Twitter on Saturday – a day after meeting the German chancellor, Angela Merkel, in Washington – that Germany “owes vast sums of money to Nato & the United States must be paid more for the powerful, and very expensive, defense it provides to Germany!”

His words prompted criticism, also published on Twitter, from a former permanent representative to Nato under President Obama.

Ivo Daalder, permanent representative from 2009 to 2013, wrote: “Sorry, Mr President, that’s not how Nato works. The US decides for itself how much it contributes to defending Nato. This is not a financial transaction, where Nato countries pay the US to defend them. It is part of our treaty commitment.

Trump has urged  Germany and other Nato members to accelerate efforts to meet Nato’s defence spending target.

Von der Leyen said everyone wanted the burden to be shared fairly and for that to happen it was necessary to have a “modern security concept” that included a modern Nato but also a European defence union and investment in the United Nations.

German defence spending is set to rise by €1.4bn ($1.5bn) to €38.5bn ($41.4bn) in 2018 – a figure that is projected to represent 1.26% of economic output, the finance minister, Wolfgang Schäuble, has said. In 2016, Germany’s defence spending ratio stood at 1.18%.

During her trip to Washington, Merkel reiterated Germany’s commitment to the 2% military spending goal.

 Each member country pays into the NATO budget in accordance with an agreed cost-sharing formula based on relative Gross National Income (GNI).

NATO is actually divided into three different budgets:

  • civil budget
  • military budget
  • NATO Security Investment Programme (NSIP)

The USA is indeed the main contributor, around 22%. Then comes Germany (14.5%), France (11%) and UK (10.5%).

But it’s important not to conflate the money contributed towards Nato with the overall military budget of a country. The US spends a huge amount on it’s military, an amount set to rise under it’s new president according to his recently announced budget. This is a political choice, one each country is free to make or not.

A recent Wall Street Journal article conflated NATO budgeted expenses with member’s military expenditure the data can be found easily on the NATO database (Nato funding).

But of course spending a great deal on your own military escapades, does not necessarily make you useful to the defence of your allies

Just remember the huge cost of the American interventions in Afghanistan and Iraq. This military cost is included in US military expenditure, though obviously both Germany and France, two major contributors to NATO, refused to participate in the intervention in Iraq and did not pay a dime on it.

The USA has a large military budget. It is a significant part of how the country self-identifies. It’s a political choice.

Workout

The Scientific 7-Minute Workout

An article in the May-June issue of the American College of Sports Medicine’s Health & Fitness Journal concluded that in 12 exercises deploying only body weight, a chair and a wall, it fulfills the latest mandates for high-intensity effort, which essentially combines a long run and a visit to the weight room into about seven minutes of steady discomfort — all of it based on science.

“There’s very good evidence” that high-intensity interval training provides “many of the fitness benefits of prolonged endurance training but in much less time,” says Chris Jordan, the director of exercise physiology at the Human Performance Institute in Orlando, Fla., and co-author of the new article.

Work by scientists at McMaster University in Hamilton, Ontario, and other institutions shows, for instance, that even a few minutes of training at an intensity approaching your maximum capacity produces molecular changes within muscles comparable to those of several hours of running or bike riding.

Interval training, though, requires intervals; the extremely intense activity must be intermingled with brief periods of recovery. In the program outlined by Mr. Jordan and his colleagues, this recovery is provided in part by a 10-second rest between exercises. But even more, he says, it’s accomplished by alternating an exercise that emphasizes the large muscles in the upper body with those in the lower body. During the intermezzo, the unexercised muscles have a moment to, metaphorically, catch their breath, which makes the order of the exercises important.

The exercises should be performed in rapid succession, allowing 30 seconds for each.The seven minutes should be, in a word, unpleasant. The upside is, after seven minutes, you’re done.

Healthy 20

The NYTimes has just run an article suggesting the health habits worth picking up in your 20s, to serve you well in later life. It’s so obviously true that youth is wasted on the young, and also that believing themselves immortal, no 20 year old ever cared enough to take this advice, yet I will persevere and run these ideas past my daughters just in case:

 

 

Staying healthy in your 20s is strongly associated with a lower risk for heart disease in middle age, according to research from Northwestern University. That study showed that most people who adopted five healthy habits in their 20s – a lean body mass index, moderate alcohol consumption, no smoking, a healthy diet and regular physical activity – stayed healthy well into middle age.

 

So the healthy 20s list goes something like this:

Weigh yourself often – I am conflicted about this one, which probably says more about my own issues with my weight than anything to do with either healthy advice or my children. The advice given is to buy a bathroom scale or use one at the gym and weigh yourself regularly. There is nothing more harmful to long-term health than carrying excess pounds, and weight tends to creep up starting in the 20s. It is pretty easy for most people to get rid of three to five pounds and much harder to get rid of 20. If you keep an eye on your weight you can catch it quickly. At the same time, a later piece of advice is to practice portion control ie. be aware of what you’re eating and max out on the fruit and vegetables whilst moderating sweets. alcohol and processed foods. Maybe I could summarise this as “be aware”.

Learn to cook – My daughters know how to cook, how to follow recipes and how to put together a meal. They’re not experts but they’re on the path to a whole level of enjoyment. The official advice of course was less focus don enjoyment and more on “Learning to cook will save you money and help you to eat healthy. Your focus should be on tasty ways to add variety to your diet and to boost intake of veggies and fruits and other nutrient-rich ingredients”. Hmm. L:et’s add in a bit of advice to stay away from anyone who hasn’t bothered tolerant to cook. If they’re male, it speaks to an upbringing steeped in the patriarchy that no daughter of mine needs to deal with in her life. If they’re female, they’ll expect you to nurture and look after them whilst I see that as something they should do for themselves.

 

Cut back on sugar- The next advice was to try to avoid excessive simple sugar by eliminating the most common sources of consumption: 1) sugared soft drinks 2) breakfast cereals with added sugar and 3) adding table sugar to foods. My advice would probably be something along the lines of “know your sugar” ie. a bit of cake at teatime isn’t going to kill you but be aware of hidden sugar, casual pointless sugar that isn’t really adding any value such as soda drinks. Excessive sugar intake has been linked to obesity and diabetes, both of which contribute to heart disease.

 

​Live an active life – Build physical activity into your daily life. Find a way to get 20 or 30 minutes of activity each day, including riding a bike or briskly walking to work. While many people can’t find time for a scheduled exercise routine, that doesn’t mean you can’t find time to be active.

 

 ​​Eat your veg – My kids have been brought up to eat a range of vegetables and it would be sad to see that variety disappear. Nutrition science is complicated and debated endlessly, but the basics are well established: Eat plenty of plant foods, go easy on junk foods, and stay active. The trick is to enjoy your meals, but not to eat too much or too often.

 

​Adopt a post-party exercise routine – If you engage in a lot of drinking and snacking, ensure you exercise a lot to offset all those extra calories from Friday to Sunday that come with extra drinking and eating. We found in a study that on Friday through Sunday young adults consumed about 115 more calories than on other days, mainly from fat and alcohol.

 

​Find a job you love- Ohio State University research found that work life in your 20s can affect your midlife mental health. People who are less happy in their jobs are more likely to report depression, stress and sleep problems and have lower overall mental health scores. I want my kids to find a job they feel passionate about. This passion can keep them motivated, help them find meaning in life, and increase expectations about their future. That in turn will make them more engaged in life and healthier behaviors, which will have long term benefits for their well-being.

 

Divorce

All of my life I have worried about money, not in a “desperate to make it” kind of way, but rather desperate to have enough, just enough. And then you ask yourself what enough might mean and for me, the answer has always been “enough to walk away”

Money is a means to an end, and the end is independence. When I tell my partner that everyday I wake up and decided whether to stay or to leave, he laughs. Various friends and acquaintances are shocked or even horrified, and I’ve never really understood why. Surely at some level this is something we should all be doing, would all be doing if we felt we had a real choice. Who wants to share their life with a partner forced into keeping them company? What would that say about them and their relationship, less a partnership than a commercial enterprise.

And now with a friend trapped in a loveless marriage, not by money but by ties to her children, I’m made aware that money cannot of course solve all of the problems. She loves her children, not so much the husband who (for all she makes reasoned explanations of his behaviour, stress, pressure at work, sick parents) treats her like shit on his shoe far to often. Her own parents divorced when she had just gained independence and she found it traumatic. She wants to delay that trauma for her children until they’re older, until at least they have left home for university.

And so she puts up with him. She tells me it’s not so bad “He’s away a lot” and the rest of her life, the bit without him in it, is good. But she also worries that her kids will start to normalise their father’s behaviour and see this as an acceptable way to treat women, that the violent arguments when he’s around will impact their own emotional well-being. Is it better to stay or make the break, for the sake of the children?

When her youngest boy starts to swear at her and treat her with contempt, is it teenage hormones or a child copying the way he see’s his father behaving? When she points out to the child that he doesn’t like it when his dad treats him like this (apparently not uncommon) so why would he behave this way to her, he apologises and they move on. Is it enough to call it out for what it is, family bullying, a pattern of behaviour you don’t want to travel down the generations?

When her oldest boy is stressed out by exam pressure compounded by his father’s extreme expectations (Oxford Maths or a failure) and seems to be suffering from an eating disorder, what do you do? Is it better to hope that he succeeds and gets out of the house to sunny Oxford, or that it all fucks up early and he get’s some help in rebuilding himself the way he’s happy with not his father’s mini-me?

Four years is a long time to live miserably.

His retirement is just around the corner. Will it make the situation bitter or worse? Without the kudos of a big, well-paying job, what will this mean little man do to prop up his ego? He could just relax into the swing of his “third-age” playing golf, taking up some voluntary work and chilling out. It might well be the making of him and possibly his marriage.

I couldn’t forgive him. I couldn’t let go of the spite, the nastiness. Not for ten years or more. Whatever the reason, and I’m sure he has many, there’s no need to bundle up all of that anger and use it to hit out emotionally at your partner, your helpmeet and friend.

I couldn’t stay, not for a week never mind four more years.

At least when it’s over, she has enough money to walk away. Most women don’t.

Barbara Reeves, a partner at Mishcon de Reya, has decades of experience in family law. She says risk is inevitable in divorce – and managing it is crucial. “There is a perception that women in England do well out of divorce – with London being described as the world’s divorce capital,” she said. “But it’s important to remember that if this is the case, it is only so for the wives of the super-wealthy. The reality for most women is that they have often created homes, raised children and supported their partners while their own careers have stood still, or progressed at a considerably slower rate.

“The money these women could have earned – and consequently their potential to save for their own future long-term needs, including retirement – has been significantly compromised.

“Divorce has always been a daunting prospect for the financially weaker party, and historically this has been the woman. It is not so much the cost of the proceedings that is daunting – but the aftermath. As the CII report shows, typically it’s women who absorb the risk: those in middle age can find themselves unemployable in an industry they may have thrived in before their marriage and/or having children.

“Once their children have grown up and any maintenance payments begin to dry up, they are often forced to rely on state provision. As Sian Fisher of the CII points out in the report, the historic support systems are receding: ‘We’re all expected to look after ourselves. On top of this, [women] may be caring for elderly parents and contending with their own mental or physical health issues.’ ”

But Reeves adds: “Divorce is a far less daunting prospect for women than non-marital separation: we still see women who have spent decades as a homemaker, raising children … being forced to walk away at the end of their relationship with nothing. If she was married, the ‘homemaker’ has a right to share a partner’s pensions. However, this is a share of the pension assets at the time of the divorce.

“Following divorce, the financially stronger party – historically the man – can continue to earn at his full earning potential and top up his pension pot; meanwhile, the woman may have a reduced earning potential following years out of the employment market while she was building the home and bringing up children. And for women who are unmarried, there is no entitlement to a share in their former partner’s pension. Risk is inherent in relationships for women. While the gender pay gap between men and women in their 20s has closed, the gap opens and widens in later years – in quite a significant part because of women taking time out of employment to have families.”

A relationship, she went on, is the biggest financial risk women take. “Any woman embarking on a relationship should at least hear the facts and be aware of the risk she is adopting.”

Cheese Soda Bread

Soda bread is the easiest bread recipe I know, especially this one with floury potatoes added in for extra oomph. Makes one large loaf

25g butter
1½ tbsp light brown sugar
1 small bunch lemon thyme, leaves picked, plus a few extra branches
2 leeks, trimmed, washed and cut into 1cm-thick rounds
1 pinch cayenne pepper (optional)
100g extra-mature cheddar, finely grated
250g maris piper (or other floury potato), peeled and cut into quarters
300g plain flour, plus extra for dusting
300g wholegrain spelt flour
1 tsp bicarbonate of soda
1 tsp fine sea salt
568ml buttermilk (ie two large pots)
40g parmesan, finely grated

Heat the oven to 200C/390F/gas mark 6. Heat the butter and sugar in a large frying pan, season generously with salt, pepper and the lemon thyme, then saute the leeks for 15-20 minutes, stirring from time to time, until sticky and caramelised. Leave to cool and, once completely cool, stir in the cayenne, if using, and all but a tablespoon of the cheddar.

Meanwhile fill a small pan with cold water, add the potatoes and bring to a boil. Simmer for 10 minutes, until tender, then drain and leave to steam dry in the pan. Once dry, mash and leave to cool.

Lightly flour a clean work surface. In a large bowl, mix the flours, bicarb and salt. In a second bowl, lightly whisk the leek mixture through the buttermilk. Make a well in the centre of the flour bowl, then pour in the leek mixture and whisk to combine. Tip out and knead briefly, just until the dough comes together: the more you work soda bread dough, the heavier it will be, so the quicker you can get the loaf into the oven after mixing the wet mixture with the dry, the better.

Shape the dough into a ball and put on to a floured baking sheet. Cut a deep cross into the top of the dough with a very sharp knife, then dust with flour and scatter with the remaining cheddar and parmesan. Press the remaining branches of lemon thyme into the loaf.

Bake for an hour, until the loaf is cooked through. To check that it’s done, turn the loaf over and tap the underside: once cooked, it will sound hollow. If it still sounds solid, pop the bread back in the oven for 10 minutes more, then test again. Leave to cool before tearing apart and serving with a crisp salad and a plate of cheese and ham.
Thomasina Miers’ cheddar, leek and maris piper soda bread.